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at least for a while

don't lock yourself out, though, either. Please listen.

yes

What's this "for a while"? If you're unsure about something, you should always communicate. Now or 20 years from now.

^

communication is key always

yes

4:57 AM

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4:58 AM

goodnight, folk. i'm out, given inebriation

good night

is it okay to put music while im active forcing?

yep, that's completely fine

is music with words alright?

5:44 AM

probably not actually lol cause the point is to focus

5:44 AM

thank you though

Whatever music you want is technically fine, unless it causes you difficulty.

do i have to close my eyes when forcing btw?

no

how about in active forcing?

Uh, closing eyes do help you meditating

8:23 AM

But it's not necessary

8:24 AM

I mean

active forcing is just forcing when focused more or less only on tulpa. What's the difference?

U don't have to

8:24 AM

Yeah

8:25 AM

I prefer passive forcing, though

Like talking to tulpa while doing other stuff?

sry for late thanks lol, thank you

Umm I still don't get it

11:57 AM

What's the difference between active forcing and passive forcing?

Active- forcing your tulpa without distractions, giving them your full focus Passive- forcing your tulpa while doing something else

And the examples please?

Active would be sitting down in a comfortable place and doing nothing but visualizing and talking to your tulpa Passive forcing would be talking to your tulpa while you're eating lunch or doing chores etc

Oh...

12:01 PM

So when I talk to Ray when I'm playing games, does that count as passive forcing?

yes

Okay

So, I'm still beginning right..

12:19 PM

If I ask my tulpa a question, and she doesn't respond

12:19 PM

should i just brush it off and act like it didnt happen?

Be patient, she'll respond in time

It means they are probably not vocal at all yet. Or for some reason they are dormant. It's rather not like they are talking and you don't hear them.

yeah alright thanks

switching.... I almost feel like I'm so close, yet so far....

Apollo/ ikr

Mmm....

Felt like that for a very long time. Until one day it just sort of clicked, very recently too

and... how did it feel, if you can describe it?

3:11 PM

I'm just not sure what exactly happens when it does, so I'm never quite sure how 'close' I am

For us it also just clicked for the first time.

3:11 PM

During ordinary possession

Everyone makes it sound so easy, really

3:12 PM

I'm trying possession but I'm not even sure if that's working out

When Luna was feeling really strong emotions

It is incredibly easy after you have done it once, but before that it is incredibly difficult

Well first it felt like I wasn't the one in control. I mean obviously right? But it feels like you are the tulpa you're not you anymore. I really can't find a clear way to explain it than that. But I found that if the host tries to think pretty much any thought at all it will end up kicking the toilet out and pushing the host back forward

mmhm

3:13 PM

when you

3:13 PM

ahem

3:13 PM

when you're in the Tulpa state or during the switching?

If you can manage to not think and just observe your told them moving your the body around I got to a point that eventually the thought process I guess you would say that is me stop functioning and winch for want of a better term dormant or asleep

so, no thinking, then, I guess- alright

@Lillyshins, exactly. It's like you are the tulpa now. You think like you are them. You become them.

I find that I can think when switched, but of course I can only do it when i am forced, and as time goes on I end up kicking my tulp out

So far it seems that everytime I try to think anything it just ends up pushing them out. But they've described the way that I am several times I'm like a wrecking ball and there's nothing they can do really if I don't want them to even if I'm not really doing it on purpose (edited)

mm, makes sense

3:15 PM

it's a bit different for everyone I suppose

To be honest right up until it happened I kind of didn't believe people when they said that the host was able to fade away and not be there for a while like the tulpa

3:16 PM

Sorry about that guys

3:17 PM

But then again it's not like I really expected it to be either so there's that

I think the problem is that people's expectations and descriptions differ from how it really feels. It's often described like host and tulpa switch places. But for me it feels nothing like it.

The only thing that seems to switch places is exactly where my mind Voice is coming from. Whenever they talk I will I guess hear them in a certain part of my head it's always the same part Trixie's in one spot and sweeties in another spot

3:19 PM

My mind voice ends up like it sounding coming from the spot that they were and I don't know if that's just us trying to explain that or if there's actually something going on there

3:20 PM

My mind boys also seems a lot smaller and less substance than the one fronting

Yes it definitely didn't feel how I had expected it to, and if I had expected it to feel different then I think I could have done it sooner

hard to explain I can use words like feeling flavor size Etc none of those really fit but they're closed kind of

ok

If it could help I put it in my progress report on tulpa .info. the way things felt and all that I don't know if it could help then probably couldn't hurt. There's a lot of crap in there that has nothing to do with switching though i think it's second or third to last post

okay

mmm... what's co-fronting, exactly? I kind of get it a little but like... mm...

Instead of it being one of you or the other of you it's like both of you together

3:35 PM

You feel as if you are both (edited)

that almost sounds more complicated then switching-

It's not

mm, alright

We got to that point years ago. But we're unable to switch

mm

Isn't possession kind of cofronting?

yes

Yeah, but co fronting is different. With possession I still feel like me. Or I did anyway. But I guess recently it hasn't been as much possession as co fronting. (edited)

We tend to use the term cofronting when it's multiple tulpas fronting, rather than tulpa + host

I see. They havnt tried to do that yet

Apollo/ it's kinda difficult to maintain for more than a short period of time

makes sense

Apollo/ it's like, we rapidly swap between who's in control, until eventually one wins out or forgets about the other, then it just turns into regular fronting

3:45 PM

Apollo/ it's not convenient enough to do more than just for the novelty of it

Sweetie/ Trixie would win. No contest.

Indigo/ Apollo always wins, even against host

3:50 PM

Indigo/ it ends up being less about who can control the body, and more about who can take control of the mind long enough for the other person to lose control

3:50 PM

Indigo/ Lyra used to love to put on this song that everyone hated for a while, so the strategy to getting her to not do that was just for one of us to start thinking, and then she wouldn't have a chance to do it and/or she would forget